About Things That Are Best Kept Private 

In a world full of noise and oversharing, maintaining privacy has become a real challenge. However, there are many aspects of our lives that deserve to be kept private and confidential. Here are seven things you should think carefully before sharing with others.

First, your personal finances. Whether you are earning well or experiencing financial distress, it is best to keep this information to yourself. Sharing details of your income or wealth may arouse envy or prompt others to try to take advantage of you. Moreover, discussing your financial crises may make you appear weak or incompetent in the eyes of others.

Second, details of your love life. Whether you are having a good time or having intimate problems with your partner, this is not information that should be shared with others. In addition to embarrassing them, it may make them feel uncomfortable and express unwanted opinions about your relationship.

Third, your future plans. If you are planning to change jobs, start a new project, or any other major change in your life, it is best to keep this information to yourself in the early stages. Sharing it may spark a lot of gossip And unwanted comments from others.

Fourth, details of your health condition. Except for discussing it with your doctor or those closest to you, there is no need to share any health problems you are facing with others. This may make them feel uncomfortable, not to mention that it may expose you to the risk of being treated as a “victim”.

Fifth, your problems in close relationships. There may be times when you feel the need to vent your problems with your partner, family members or close friends. But avoid sharing these details with others as they may become the subject of gossip and gossip, which may further damage your relationships.

Sixth, anything confidential. If you are asked to keep information confidential, whether from a friend, a colleague or even a legal agreement, you must respect this completely. Betraying trust and revealing secrets is unforgivable and can damage your relationships and credibility.

Seventh, therapy sessions. Therapy is a private and safe space to discuss your deepest inner issues and fears. So, be careful when sharing what happened in your therapy sessions with others, as they may feel uncomfortable or embarrassed. On the other hand, if you are experiencing a serious health problem or are being abused, do not hesitate to ask for help from your loved ones.

Privacy is one of our basic rights. Not all information is meant to be shared with the world. You have to be careful and choose carefully what you want to disclose and what you prefer to keep private. Keeping some things private is a way to preserve your dignity, protect your relationships and protect your mental health.

Respecting privacy, whether it is your own or that of others, is essential to living harmoniously in our society. Nothing is worth sacrificing others’ trust in you or exposing yourself to embarrassment or trouble just to satisfy their curiosity. So, be wise in choosing what you share and what you keep to yourself.