Signs She Likes You (Not Just Being Friendly)

It can be quite awkward when talking to a crush and you're completely unsure of their feelings toward you. Worse yet, you may have been misunderstanding the signals and end up hearing those dreaded words "I only see you as a friend," or "I like you, but not like that." Gah! Sometimes, you might even blame yourself! The thing is, some people are just more friendly and open by nature. They're always smiling, saying nice things, and greeting people with warm hugs. And sometimes, gestures like these lead people to believe that the person is interested in them.

Actually, many guys have trouble recognizing a woman's signals of interest and differentiating between whether she's flirting or just being pleasant. This lack of clarity can certainly drive a man crazy and, in some cases, might cause broken friendships. So in order to avoid all that drama, here are 8 things to look out for, so you can feel more sure of your role in her life.

 She's Touchy-Feely with You

An accidental shoulder brush, knees touching when you sit side-by-side, an arm on your shoulder for no reason… Touch is a sure-fire way to express interest and attraction. If she’s making excuses to touch you, whether it's picking a piece of lint off your jacket or fixing your hair, chances are she enjoys your company immensely!

 She Asks a Lot of Questions

Of course, some people are naturally more curious than others. However, if she's really interested in you, her questions get a little more specific. Be prepared to reveal embarrassing childhood stories and stupid college pranks when you talk to her! And if she remembers every tiny detail of what you said and asks follow-up questions, you can be sure she's into you.

 She Draws Attention to Her Neck and Shoulders

Many non-verbal signals can indicate interest. One of the signs a girl likes you is if she draws attention to delicate areas of her body like her neck and shoulders. If she is constantly playing with her necklace or twirling her hair, she could be subconsciously signaling that she likes you.

 Her Feet Point Toward You and She Leans in When You Speak

In the flirting game, body language is everything! Women do a lot more than just twirl their hair. There are several clues in the way she stands, the position of her feet, and how close she is to you. You just have to know to pick up on them! For example, where are her toes pointed? If she likes you, her feet will be pointing right at you! If she's leaning toward you as you're talking, it's a hint that she wants to be physically closer to you. Since our personal space bubble extends about 45 centimeters around us, if she breaks her barrier to be closer to you, it's a good indicator that she likes you!

 She Removes Physical Barriers Between You

Speaking of barriers, it doesn't matter if it's a coffee cup or a dainty rose in a vase bang in the center of the table, if a girl likes you, she will move it out of the way to be more open to you. When we don't like someone or are wary of them, we subconsciously place something tangible in the middle to block access. So, if she readily removes physical barriers between you, it's a sign that she's open to this connection!

 She Finds You Hilarious

Although your friends may not think you're a comedian, if a girl likes you, chances are she laughs the hardest at your jokes. Women want a guy with a good sense of humor who can make them laugh, and you don't have to be John Mulaney for that to happen. If she is already attracted to you, even puns and old dad jokes will pull her in!

 She's Often Typing and Deleting a Message

Does she take an unusually long time to text? And when she does text, is it a flirty, light-hearted message? Those three dreaded dots are the source of quite a lot of anxiety when you're just getting to know someone. If you see that she’s been typing for ages, and then you get a one-liner that's more low-key, chances are she was trying to perfect the message.

 She Emphasizes That She's Single and Ready to Mingle

Usually, women don't like discussing past relationships in great detail. If you're hearing a lot about her exes, chances are she views you as a reliable friend and nothing more. On the other hand, if she mentions her past relationships without giving too many details and tells you that she's ready to get back out there, keep an eye out for clues. She may just be hinting at YOU as a potential new interest!

 

So given everything I just told you, is she being friendly or flirty? Keep in mind that this list doesn't define every woman out there. People express love and attraction differently, and it's important to appreciate that uniqueness. There will never be a checklist you can tick off to get any sort of guarantee, so if you do see all these signs, maybe just be honest and make your feelings clear. Who knows!? It might just work out.

Understanding the nuances of romantic interest can be challenging, but recognizing these signs can give you the confidence to make the next move. Relationships often start with uncertainty, but clear communication can help bridge the gap between friendliness and attraction. If you notice these signals, consider them as potential indicators rather than absolute proof. At the end of the day, trust your instincts and be honest about your feelings. Whether she likes you or not, clarity is always the best policy.

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